{"id":447,"date":"2022-08-25T16:07:32","date_gmt":"2022-08-25T16:07:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/letscareforhealth.com\/?p=447"},"modified":"2022-09-06T00:31:26","modified_gmt":"2022-09-06T00:31:26","slug":"strategies-to-overcome-repetitive-disturbing-thoughts","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/letscareforhealth.com\/index.php\/2022\/08\/25\/strategies-to-overcome-repetitive-disturbing-thoughts\/","title":{"rendered":"Ruminating: Strategies To Overcome Repetitive Disturbing Thoughts"},"content":{"rendered":"<body>\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center has-vivid-red-color has-text-color\"> By Janet Vargas \u2013 Independent Natural Health Researcher  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\">RUMINATION: dwelling on sad or disturbing things can be quite crippling, whereby we find these thoughts (whatever is upsetting or puzzling us) repeating themselves in cycles, here and there throughout the day, or full-on for a few hours until we do something <strong><em>active, enjoyable<\/em><\/strong> or <strong><em>interesting<\/em><\/strong> that breaks the cycle and affords some peace.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\">\u00a0Sometimes, we can find ourselves experiencing this <strong><em>disturbing thought pattern<\/em><\/strong> for a few days when certain memories visit us from the past or something is unresolved. Stressful relationships and disappointing ones play a big role in this scenario too, especially when <strong><em>someone we trust<\/em><\/strong> speaks or acts in a way that is totally unexpected. It can take hours or even days afterward trying to work out why they behaved that way and if it would be unwise to continue a friendship. \u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\"><strong><em>Occasional deep thinking in a positive way<\/em><\/strong> can be productive and bring a better sense of direction when making plans, whatever, or inspire change in some way. Also, we can switch it off at will.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\"><strong><em>However, for most people, intense thoughts have to do with Rumination<\/em><\/strong>: the serious things, stressful, upsetting and perturbing, regretful and disappointing \u2013 in other words, all negative things. Over and over again, they repeat themselves and show us no mercy, so to speak. Yes, many people experience this.<a href=\"mailto:?subject=Psychology%20Today%3A%20Sixteen%20Strategies%20for%20Combating%20Rumination%20%20&amp;body=Hi%2C%0D%0A%0D%0AI%20thought%20you%27d%20be%20interested%20in%20this%20article%20on%20Psychology%20Today%3A%0D%0A%0D%0A%20Sixteen%20Strategies%20for%20Combating%20Rumination%20%20%0D%0Ahttps%3A\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/us\/blog\/the-creativity-cure\/201207\/sixteen-strategies-combating-rumination%3Feml%0D%0A%0D%0A%0D%0A---%0D%0AFind%20a%20Therapist%3A%20https%3A\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/us&amp;destination=node\/100946\"><br><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\">Obviously, we need to find ways to <strong><em>switch these thoughts off<\/em><\/strong> or reduce them at-least, for our <strong><em>well-being<\/em><\/strong> and quality of <strong><em>day to day lives.<\/em><\/strong> We will be happier for doing so, and for family members as well. If we are single, this could be the very turn-around you have waited for. \u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\">Friends, hopefully you will find one or two things in the list of ideas I\u2019ve provided here that work well for you. I hope you find some strategies to help you overcome this time waster that saps up our energy and mental real-estate that could be better spent on something <strong><em>productive, positive or cheerful<\/em><\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center has-medium-font-size\">Some Strategies for Overcoming Rumination<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\"><strong>\u201cNip them in the Bud\u201d if you can as quickly as possible. That\u2019s the best way, rather than wait for them to develop and gain ground \u2013 it can become more challenging but possible.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\"><strong>Professionals say \u201c<em>Once you are involved in something, your mind has a chance to take another path<\/em>.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\" type=\"1\"><li><strong><em>Distract yourself with things<\/em><\/strong> <strong><em>like<\/em><\/strong> pleasant reading, engaging in some interesting research, walking a few streets or sitting in a park, absorbing the atmosphere around you. \u00a0<\/li><li>Repeat the Serenity Prayer: \"God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change; change the things I can and\u00a0wisdom\u00a0to know the difference.\" This often brings one a sense of <strong><em>calmness and composure <\/em><\/strong>because it can allay confusion and anxious thoughts that caused rumination, if you meditate on those words instead, leaving things with Him.<\/li><li><strong><em>Read some pleasant poems audibly to yourself<\/em><\/strong> or read some thoughtful quotes and sayings. Maybe think of a few and write them down.<\/li><li>Repeat a comforting phrase, a simple affirmation, a prayer, a poem or a song to yourself.<\/li><li>Exercise or walk. Carrie Barron M.D. says \u201c<strong><em>Moving your body can move the content in your mind<\/em><\/strong>. Notice <strong><em>aspects of nature<\/em><\/strong> or humanity that are bigger than your situation. <strong><em>Try to focus on what is outside of you rather than inside of you<\/em><\/strong>.\u201d I have found these things to be true (before reading them).<\/li><li>Count your blessings instead of things that worry you. <strong><em>Research shows that<\/em><\/strong> <strong><em>a\u00a0grateful\u00a0person is a happy person.<\/em><\/strong><\/li><li>Listen to music that has meaning for you or provides comfort. Sing or dance or clean the car with the music playing, someone said.<\/li><li>Watch a comedy channel or DVD \u2013 keep some ready to use.<\/li><li>Make arrangements to meet a good friend who would have a <strong><em>sensitive response<\/em><\/strong> or could <strong><em>make you laugh<\/em><\/strong>.<\/li><li>Say, \u201cDon\u2019t think\u2026\u201d a few times and <em>do<\/em>\u00a0something like cooking or baking \u00a0a nice recipe you like, doing some favorite cleaning activity, rearranging some shelves in a cupboard, or something else you enjoy\u2026\u2026<\/li><li><strong><em>Go somewhere and be around other people<\/em><\/strong> or do a small project of some kind.<\/li><li>Maybe start some Craft or a new Hobby you think could interest you. <strong><em>Come on, give it a try!<\/em><\/strong><\/li><li>Get into some high action: Accomplish more than you think you can or need to. Get five things done instead of three. <strong><em>It might energize you in a good way<\/em><\/strong>. Sometimes someone needs to experience energy instead of excessive time for thought.<\/li><li>You can get some things out of the way that need attending to: <strong><em>challenge yourself with short 10-15 minute tasks<\/em><\/strong> <strong><em>and see how many you can get done in relays<\/em><\/strong>. A timer is really great for this. Imagine how good you will feel about yourself afterwards?<\/li><li>Send someone a Letter, Card, Postcard or eCard <strong><em>who could do with some cheering up<\/em><\/strong>. You can go out grocery shopping and give free smiles away to lift other's day. <\/li><li>Phone <strong><em>World Vision<\/em><\/strong> or <strong><em>Samaritans Purse<\/em><\/strong> and give a practical gift overseas \u2013 a warm blanket, veggie seeds with training, chicks for eggs, clean water or honey bees, <strong><em>and imagine someone receiving your gift<\/em><\/strong>. Those people get <strong><em>very excited<\/em><\/strong> and <strong><em>thankful<\/em><\/strong> \u2013 you would have made some life-change possible for them. I take much Joy in that!<\/li><li>Think Of Positive Memories. <strong><em>Have a small collection of Nice Memories<\/em><\/strong> you picture in your heart and mind instead. Keep building onto that list each time you Enjoy something, big or small. This works very well for a friend who used to ruminate a lot.<\/li><li><strong><em>Find something Good to look forward to<\/em><\/strong> and maybe you can make some plans towards that. It doesn't have to be something big. Unrealistic expectations often disappoint. Instead, think of somethings that can be workable. Maybe you have not tried this before -<strong><em> it can be good<\/em><\/strong>.<\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\">15 &amp; 16 help <strong><em>shift our thoughts away from ourselves<\/em><\/strong> which is often the problem in ruminating \u2013 especially if we are not well or have too much time on our hands. They give you a <strong><em>sense of empowerment<\/em><\/strong> to bless others instead of vulnerability in the maze you find yourself in. So do small Random Acts of Kindness we hear about.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\">4, 6 \u2013 9, 11, 13 inspired by Carrie. She says \u201cMake yourself take these aspects of life or culture in even if you don\u2019t feel like it\u2026\u2026\u201d and let them work for you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\">I personally recommend 1 <strong>\u2013<\/strong> 3, 10 &amp; 12, 15 &amp; 16. These are things I find to be beneficial.<br>These are all good solutions you can try.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\">Over time, you can <strong><em>train yourself to think differently<\/em><\/strong> and <strong><em>develop new thought patterns<\/em><\/strong>. Be patient with yourself in this process. And make it enjoyable - that's a good circuit breaker.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\">Remember inactivity is not your friend. Getting More Active offsets a lot of that - it coaxes our thoughts <strong><em>into<\/em><\/strong> <strong><em>a healthier mode<\/em><\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\">If you are sitting down or laying down when Rumination occurs, getting up quickly and going to a different room and doing something Active can help to offset those thoughts. I\u2019ve had experience with that some years ago, based on observation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center has-vivid-red-color has-text-color\">Sunshine and Fresh Air are marvelous for Lifting our Mood Levels.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\">As with any skill \u201cPractice makes perfect\u201d \u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026 See if you can develop a few New Habits, hey?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image aligncenter size-full\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"600\" height=\"259\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/letscareforhealth.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/Friendship-Tips-And-Poems-1.jpg?resize=600%2C259&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-473\" loading=\"lazy\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/letscareforhealth.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/Friendship-Tips-And-Poems-1.jpg?w=600&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/letscareforhealth.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/Friendship-Tips-And-Poems-1.jpg?resize=300%2C130&amp;ssl=1 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\">GOOD NEWS!<br>I have a New Exciting Website <a href=\"https:\/\/friendshiptipsandpoems.com\/welcome\">Friendship Tips And Poems<\/a> that has content about <strong><em>Good Friendships<\/em><\/strong> and the <strong><em>Not-So-Good<\/em><\/strong> experiences that are often responsible for much of our Ruminating. There's no doubt about it, <strong><em>Rumination is Unhealthy<\/em><\/strong> and you will gain some extra insights when you read an article I have written there (separate to this one) called <a href=\"https:\/\/friendshiptipsandpoems.com\/ruminating-can-make-you-trip\">Ruminating Can Trip You Up<\/a>. Reading both of these articles should help you considerably, if you put the Tips and Advice into practice. They should make for more pleasant days spent. 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